Top 10+ Best Curly Hair Tips for Amazing 2C/3A Curls

Frustrated with curls that just won’t cooperate?

You know you have curl potential, but you just can’t get it right.

I’ve been there. I grew up in the humid United States south where my hair was more frizzy than curly. It took me into my late 20s to learn how to properly treat my hair – not just tame it but treat it well, the way my hair deserves to be treated in all its fabulous curly glory.

My curls have leveled up in the last 10 years as I’ve learned more about curly hair care. The most helpful exercise for me was to find people with similar hair types and follow their tips.

Recently, my friends started asking me about my curly hair routine. So here are my tips for taking your 2C-3A curly hair from frizz to fab, distilled from years of experience.

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Check out my most recently updated curly hair routine and products here.

Putting Together a Curly Hair Routine

Tips for putting together your own curly hair routine:

• Consider your curly hair type and hair porosity.
• Keep in mind that your hair and scalp will take time to adjust to changes.
• Your styling technique matters just as much as your products.
• The shape and style of your haircut will make a difference in your curls.
• Your needs may change based on the climate and water hardness where you live.

Most of all, be patient! You’ll see my own curly hair journey spans a lifetime. You may see some results right away but even better results weeks later. My personal rule is to give my hair 4 weeks to adjust to any changes before I judge whether something’s working or not.

In the months and years since I switched to my current hair care routine, my curls have become stronger, thicker, softer, and more resilient. I recently went to a wedding and when people saw photos from the event they asked who styled my hair. (Spoiler alert: it was me!)

Sometimes, straight or wavy hair just needs the right treatment to encourage its natural curl. This is my guide to starting your curly hair journey or improving your curly hair game.

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About My 2C-3A Curly Hair

I have fine, bra-strap length, 2C-3A curls with low-to-medium porosity. My curls start near my roots, with ringlets that range from loose loops to tight springs about as thick as a piece of sidewalk chalk. My strands are slow to absorb water and fast to dry, especially near the ends.

My routine is currently color-free and heat-free. I can get lazy and go long periods between haircuts – my latest stretch was 14 months. All in all, my hair care routine is pretty natural and low-maintenance.

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I use as little product as possible because so many products weigh down my hair, making it heavy and limp. But my hair is prone to frizz and needs a little bit of something to add definition.

My Curly Hair Journey

I had thick, tight curls as a baby and kid, the product of Mediterranean-Middle Eastern genetics. In the humid U.S. south, my naturally curly hair expressed itself most often as a giant ball of frizz. As an adolescent, I destroyed any curl definition by brushing my hair when it was dry. I usually wore my hair in a ponytail or bun, which further flattened any curl potential.

At one point I got so fed up that I decided to chop off my hair into what I hoped would be a cute pixie cut. It did not go well and the growing-out process was even worse. Thankfully, this was pre-social media.

In college, I would often straighten my hair with a flat iron at the highest temperature.

Finding The Curly Girl Method

I took my first step in the right direction around 2010 when I found the Curly Girl Method online. I decreased my shampooing to every other day and started using DevaCurl sulfate- and silicone-free products. I continued to occasionally straighten my hair, especially after getting it cut at the salon.

By 2014, my ends had dried to straw. DevaCurl was a step in the right direction but my hair wasn’t getting the moisture it needed. I switched to a salon that specialized in curly hair, cut my losses by chopping my long strands into a bob, and found products that worked better.

I straightened my hair less and less often, mostly out of laziness, but also because my curls started to resist the straightening iron. After a while, I gave up the iron altogether – even after straightening, waves would win the battle and sneak back in within a few hours.

Now I can’t remember the last time I straightened my hair. By 2016, I had started to understand my natural curls, working with them instead of fighting against them.

I used to consider myself lucky when I got a good hair day. Eventually, good hair days became my normal. I even converted my curly-haired partner to my methods, with results that delighted him.

Guess what guys? These curly hair tips work for men too!

Curly Hair Tips, Tricks, and Techniques

Some of these tips may seem self-explanatory, but many of them involved unlearning habits for me. Some of these things you don’t even think about!

1. Use a Wide-Tooth Comb

If you do only one thing for better curly hair, ditch your brush and get a wide-tooth comb.

Seriously. This was my partner’s gateway to better curly hair.

He started using the wide-tooth comb in my bathroom whenever he stayed over. He noticed a huge difference in his curls on the days he ditched his fine-tooth comb.

It’s such an easy fix, too. Very little effort and the combs cost less than $6.

2023 update! I used a wide-tooth comb for years but recently switched to just using my fingers to comb through my hair when it’s wet. My curls end up thicker and bouncier this way.

2. Only Comb Your Hair When It’s Wet

Stop combing your hair when it’s dry. In fact, with curly hair, you should do most of your styling when your hair is wet. If you need to break up your curls, use your fingers.

What About Tangles?

To break apart tangles, coat your hair with conditioner, starting at the ends. Once the conditioner has had a minute to sink in, use your fingers to gently work through tangles from the ends up.

“Slip” refers to the quality of lubrication you get from your conditioner to detangle your strands. The worse your tangles, the more slip will help.

I currently use the Generic Value Products (GVP) Conditioning Balm version of the Matrix Biolage HydraSource Conditioning Balm for great slip.

I comb my hair just enough to get out the tangles, right before rinsing out my conditioner. I never comb my hair dry. Instead, I rewet with a spray bottle before combing or styling with products.

3. Pat Dry With a Microfiber Towel

Thick terry cloth towels make your hair more likely to frizz, especially if you rub your hair dry.

Instead, use either a microfiber towel or an old t-shirt. Pat your hair gently to dry. Don’t worry about absorbing all the moisture. You want your hair to stay wet for styling.

You can find more curly hair towel options in my 2023 update here.

4. Beware the Glop When Applying Product

Do you wonder why one part of your hair feels oily and heavy while other parts feel dry and frizzy?

Well… how do you actually apply conditioner to your hair?

Do you squeeze a glop of conditioner into your palm, slap that glop directly onto the back of your head, then try to spread it around?

There. You’ve got your answer.

It’s so simple, but I made this mistake for years. So did my partner.

To avoid the glop, first “activate” the product between your palms before you put it in your hair. Then work the product evenly through your locks.

5. “Activate” Products Before Applying

Most hair products work better when you “activate” them in your hands before applying them to your hair, especially shampoos and leave-in products. To activate your products, take the amount you want to use and rub it between your palms for 5-10 seconds to warm it up.

For shampoo, this helps the product bubble up and makes it easier to spread over your scalp.

For conditioners and leave-in products, this helps them spread more evenly over your hair.

My current favorite leave-in product is the Giovanni Direct Leave-In Weightless Moisture Conditioner.

6. Use the “Rake and Shake” Method to Style Your Hair

The “rake and shake” method is curly salon Ouidad’s signature styling technique. Use this styling method after you gently towel-dry your hair, while it’s still wet.

After activating a product in your hands, rake your fingers through your hair in sections, then shake your hair at the bottom. This helps define, loosen, and clump your curls.

You can get really detailed with the rake and shake method if you want, sectioning off pieces of your hair and doing them separately to get the most curl definition. I do a low-maintenance version. I activate my leave-in product in my hands then loosely rake and shake through my hair all over. I finish by flipping my hair upside-down and scrunching it up from the ends.

7. Cleansers Go on Your Scalp, Conditioners All Over

When cleansing your hair, focus on your scalp, where most of the oil and buildup happens. Gently massage shampoo onto your scalp with your fingertips. You don’t need to apply cleansers directly to your ends because when you rinse your scalp, the shampoo will naturally wash out through your ends.

When conditioning your hair, focus on your ends, where the most tangles occur. I like to start applying conditioner at my ends to about halfway up my strands. I use plenty of conditioner – as much as it takes to get the slip I need to work through tangles with my fingers.

2023 update: I recently learned from my curly hair specialized hairdresser that I should use conditioner all over my hair, from the roots to the ends. Now I start by applying conditioner to my roots first, then I squeeze any leftover product down towards the ends and continue applying just as much as needed to cover the rest.

Give Your Conditioner Time to Work

I like to apply conditioner and then twist and pin my hair to the top of my head while I go about the rest of my shower. The steam from the shower helps the conditioner penetrate the hair follicle. This might only take a few minutes but it helps, especially with tangles.

8. Stop Shampooing Every Day

Note: I used the non-shampoo method below for years but I’ve since changed my routine. Now I use a gentle clarifying shampoo every time I wash my hair. You can read more about my curly hair routine updates here.

A big part of the curly hair process is maintaining your hair’s natural balance. Cleansing your hair every day with shampoo will strip it of its moisture and natural oils.

Adjusting your shampoo schedule will take time. It’s a process!

How to Adjust Your Shampoo Schedule

If you’re used to shampooing every 1-2 days, switch to a gentle cleanser like the ones I recommend for 2C-3A curls. Then gradually start spacing out your shampoo days.

Shampoo every 3 days for a month, then every 4 days for a month, then every 5 days, and so on. Use a co-wash or just conditioner for the days in between shampoos.

Listen to the “feel” of your hair when adjusting your shampoo schedule. If you suddenly go from shampooing every other day to once a week, your scalp and hair might freak out.

It took me almost a year to adjust my schedule from shampooing every other day to about once a week. During the process, if I pushed my shampoo off for too long too soon, my scalp would get so oily and itchy that I couldn’t fall asleep until I showered and shampooed.

9. Rinse Products Completely out of Your Hair

Make sure to rinse your products completely out of your hair! This is big. While rinsing your hair, use the soft pads of your fingertips to massage products off your scalp and part through your hair strands to truly get all the product out. Learn what your hair feels like when it’s truly rinsed off versus when it still has some product in it.

Some people purposefully leave some conditioner in their hair as “leave-in.” I do not recommend this.

For one, you never know how much product you’re actually washing out or leaving in your hair, so you get inconsistent results. You want better control than that when styling.

Second, I prefer to use a leave-in conditioner that’s actually meant to be left in. Most regular conditioners are made to be rinsed out completely.

Check Your Shower’s Water Pressure

Water temperature doesn’t matter as much as water pressure. You can wash your hair with hot or cold water. But if your water pressure’s too high, it will strip your scalp of its natural oils.

To adjust your water pressure, you can easily install a shower pressure regulator.

10. Protect Your Curls Overnight

If you want better second-day hair, and if your hair is long enough to gather into a ponytail, I highly recommend pineappling your hair overnight.

This can be done with a satin scrunchie but I personally love these curly hair ties. You can also wrap your hair in a satin scarf or bonnet for even better protection.

Second-day hair is important to me because I usually shower in the evenings and don’t wash my hair in the mornings. If I don’t pineapple my hair overnight, I end up crushing most of my curls by the next day. The pineapple helps keep curls out of the way and un-crushed!

Sleep With a Silk or Satin Pillowcase

Silk pillowcases reduce frizz and breakage!

This is another curly-hair perk that my partner gets whenever he sleeps over.

11. If You’re Going to Use Heat, Make It Hot & Gentle

This is something I just learned! Normally, I don’t use heat on my hair at all. Whenever I did, I always stuck to low heat and low power. Apparently, this is wrong!

At my last haircut, my stylist told me that if I ever diffuse my hair, I should use high heat and low power. The reason? The more your hair gets jostled about, the more frizz. Low heat takes your hair longer to dry, which allows more time for your wet hair to get bumped and moved about.

I hate sweating over a blow dryer for longer than I have to, so it’s important to invest in a good hair dryer to seal in your style without frizz.

BONUS: Find a Hair Stylist Who Specializes in Curly Hair

This seriously changed my curly hair game!

When I first moved, I started getting my hair cut at a regular salon. My hairstylist did not know how to cut, shape, or style curly hair – at all.

She’d give me layers suited for straight hair, then blow-dry my hair straight so it would look great that day. But when I wore my hair natural, my head looked like a mushroom cloud: a big poof up top with a sad tail coming down the nape of my neck. It was terrible.

My roommate and fellow curly girl recommended her long-time hairstylist who works at a salon that specializes in curly hair. My new hairstylist takes amazing care of trimming my locks so that my curls can do their thing and shine – no mushroom clouds or unintentional mullets. Even when I push a year without a trim, the shape of my hair still looks great.

If you’re ready to make the leap, the extra commitment to your curls really pays off.

Now that you’ve read my best techniques for 2C/3A curly hair, check out my most recently updated curly hair routine and favorite curly hair products.