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8 Steps to Sex Worker Allyship for Pole Dancing Hobbyists

Published on | Last updated on January 21, 2026
By Zeina Khalem in Pole Dancing | Leave a Comment

I started my pole dancing journey like many others. I saw a beautiful, sensual, and empowering form of expression that inspired me to move my body in new ways. I started taking classes at local pole studios and following pole dancers on Instagram. As I got deeper into the hobby, one account led to another until I began following strippers …

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My Favorite Beautiful & Easy DIY Scarf Wall Organizer

Published on | Last updated on March 22, 2023
By Zeina Khalem in Home Decor Ideas | Leave a Comment

This gorgeous scarf organizer works for any type of long garment. My housemate used this template to create an apron wall display. The materials are easily accessible and building it is so much fun! I can be obsessive about matching my clothes. After living in the cold and wet Northeast United States for 10 years, I gathered a decent collection …

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Best Dance Poles for Home Use (X-Pole & Lupit Pole Review)

Published on | Last updated on April 12, 2024
By Zeina Khalem in Pole Dancing | 6 Comments

So you’re ready to commit to your pole dancing practice by installing your own pole at home. Awesome! It’s an exciting step to take and makes even more sense now with social distancing policies temporarily closing down pole dancing studios across the world. Many teachers are making online pole classes available, which means you can continue pole dancing and working …

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My Pole Dancing Journey: From Flailing to Flying in 8-Inch Heels

Published on | Last updated on March 15, 2025
By Zeina Khalem in Pole Dancing | Leave a Comment

On a Wednesday night in September 2014, I attended a “girls’ night out” meetup at The Abbey club and bar in West Hollywood. It had been barely two weeks since I’d driven cross-country to move to Los Angeles and this introvert was trying to make new friends. Three delightful women showed up at the meetup. We grabbed drinks and yelled …

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20+ Beautiful Pole Dance Shoes Worth Flipping Over

Published on | Last updated on September 17, 2025
By Zeina Khalem in Pole Dancing | Leave a Comment

There’s just something so satisfying about living your best pole life on a pair of boss ass stilettos. Whether your pole dance journey had you jumping into a pair of heels right away or you took your time, many pole dancers understand the obsession with pole shoes. And if you don’t, keep reading to find more than 20 gorgeous pairs …

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650+ Best Pole Dancing Songs With Playlists

Published on | Last updated on January 30, 2026
By Zeina Khalem in Pole Dancing | Leave a Comment

One of the best parts about pole dancing is how dynamic and diverse it can be. You can truly dance to anything on the pole. I’ve seen pole dancing to classic club songs, rock and roll, heavy metal, electronica, orchestral music, even Broadway musicals. Since I started pole dancing in 2014, I’ve danced at multiple studios, followed hundreds of pole …

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Top 10+ Best Curly Hair Tips for Amazing 2C/3A Curls

Published on | Last updated on October 21, 2023
By Zeina Khalem in Curly Girl Method | 2 Comments

Frustrated with curls that just won’t cooperate? You know you have curl potential, but you just can’t get it right. I’ve been there. I grew up in the humid United States south where my hair was more frizzy than curly. It took me into my late 20s to learn how to properly treat my hair – not just tame it …

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The Best Holy Grail Products for 2C/3A Curly Hair

Published on | Last updated on October 21, 2023
By Zeina Khalem in Curly Girl Method | 14 Comments

I know how hard it can be to find a product that works for your curly hair. Everyone is different and finding your own curly hair routine is a process of trial and error. Someone else’s holy grail product may not work for you. You may have other priorities, like making sure your products are vegan, cruelty-free, hypoallergenic, or paraben-free. …

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Up the Stairs, a Sexy Short Story

Published on | Last updated on January 21, 2026
By Zeina Khalem in Romantic Fiction, Sexy Shorts

He followed me up the stairs after I excused myself from the bar. The communication between us was less unspoken signal and more trigger and effect, all of our touch-and-go glances building in anticipation of this opportunity. He must have waited all but thirty seconds before falling on my trail, weaving through the happy hour crowd as I had just …